I have started writing this post only to realize, that I already wrote something similar. So, consider this a part 2.

The issue of lack of self-confidence is very serious, even if it doesn’t seem like that at first sight. Insecurity turns so many lives into a nightmare, because now, in this new materialistic world, everyone wants to look perfect, everyone’s obsessed with their appearances. People actually think that they’re not happy because they look “bad”, and it’s really sad. So many people, especially younger girls, don’t enjoy their lives just because they’re constantly thinking about their looks. That’s why I think this matter is essential.

As I mentioned, I already wrote a PART ONE for this topic, which concentrated more on inner advice, that would help you change your attitude towards this whole situation. If you haven’t read it, please do, because the things I talk about in there are far more important, they’re the basis of solving this problem. However, here I’ll give some more practical and daily tips that can help you boost your confidence and feel good in your own skin.

1. Compliment yourself. Even scientists and doctors now confess that self-hypnosis actually works. Whatever you say to yourself and whatever you believe in starts working for you. So, why don’t you play a little game? Every time you look in the mirror, try to find at least one thing that you can compliment. Keep saying that you look good, that you’re the most beautiful person in this world, even if you don’t feel that way yet. As they say, fake it till you make it. And whatever happens, never say bad things to yourself. Even if you look in the mirror, and hate the image you see, don’t start scolding yourself. If you can’t make yourself to say good things, at least don’t say the bad ones as well. Try to feel neutral about your appearance, that could be your first step.

2. Find your style. You all know that we have different body types, different face structures, and sometimes even the most beautiful clothes or makeup can look bad on us, making us feel really insecure. That’s because we haven’t found our true style yet, things that will hide our faults and highlight the good sides. So, instead of following the fashion trends and blindly copying everyone else, try to find things that will look good on you, even if they’re considered old-fashioned. Believe me, once you find your authentic style, that will emphasize your character, you’ll instantly feel much more confident in anything that you wear.

3. Learn how to pose. Insecurity often comes from taking photos. You look in the mirror, think that you look okay, take the photo and see a “horrible image”. I’m sure it has happened to many people. We start overthinking, why we look so ugly, while all those models and bloggers look flawless on photos. That’s because they know how to pose. They know what’s their working side, they know how to use the light in their favor. So, if you constantly face this situation, I’ll recommend watching some tutorials and learning how to pose to look good on photos.

4. Try to focus on your good sides. Remember that every single person has good sides and bad ones. But having imperfections doesn’t make you ugly. You just need to switch your focus. So, next time you look in the mirror and want to pay attention to your pimples, or a little body fat on your hips, start noticing your good sides, because you definitely have those. Maybe you have beautiful eyes, a charming smile, long shiny hair. Doesn’t matter. Once you start paying more attention to your attractive part, after a while you’ll notice, that you don’t seem to care about your flaws.

5. Improve your flaws. Now, if you objectively see, that you have some faults, which is totally okay, why don’t you try improving them little by little? The mere thought that you’re doing something to get rid of your imperfections will make you feel much better. If you’re unsatisfied with your body – start doing some exercises and eating a little more healthy, if you don’t like your skin – start doing some masks and massages, and so on. Don’t overwhelm yourself with huge changes that might scare you off. Remember – little by little, step by step – that’s the way to true and consistent growth and success.

6. Find insecurities of your idols. It’s hard to believe but even the most gorgeous celebrities have insecurities and even suffer from inferiority complex. And reading their personal stories about how they deal with lack of self-confidence can truly be empowering. Because you realize that even those who are considered perfect according to the beauty standards, still feel bad about their looks. And if they have flaws, so can you, and it wouldn’t mean that you’re not pretty.

Now, all these things should be done repeatedly and become a part of your daily routines, if you really want to get rid of this problem. Because it won’t help, if you look in the mirror and compliment yourself only once or twice. It’s a hard and long work that starts from within, but the results are totally worth it.